You were supposed to be married by now. WTF?!

“Why is dating so hard?”

- signed, an awesome woman who’s got her shit together

You dust off your phone, redownload all those apps, and start swiping…*again*…because how else will you ever meet someone? (And besides, does anyone even meet in person anymore?)

Except, after a few weeks of swiping and being “switched on” around men, that pit in your stomach (you know the one — the same one that caused you to delete all the apps before) came back.

It seems like the only people you find on those apps are immature, emotionally unavailable, “window shopping” men who aren’t willing or ready to commit.

The only constant is confusion and red flags for miles.

You’ve got a lot going for you: You’re the shit! But you can’t find a boyfriend. WTF?!

What if I told you there was a better way?

The truth is it’s easy to blame the men, the apps, and our dating culture for making you feel like you’re just another profile in a sea of endless options — because you kinda are.

You can’t change dating culture or men, BUT there’s so much you can control (that you might not be aware of yet).

Spoiler: They’re simple, but can change your dating game for good.

Things like:

  • recognizing why you pick guys that don’t want what you want

  • spotting red flags sooner (and not making excuses for them anymore)

  • refusing to accept breadcrumbs (because that’s bullshit)

  • becoming unapologetically confident in who you are (because you’re actually a badass!)

  • learning how to trust your gut (because you are so much more intuitive than you give yourself credit for)

This is the work we’ll do together, and it’ll change your fucking life.

My Coaching Offerings

  • 1:1 Coaching

    If you’re tired of wasting time trying to figure out this whole dating game on your own and you’re ready to finally get a committed boyfriend, one-on-one coaching allows you to work directly with Alyse to get personalized support so you don’t have to figure it out on your own.

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  • Group Coaching

    Do you ever wonder why it’s so hard to meet a nice guy? Or why all of your friends are married with kids and you’re stuck in a sea of red flags? This group coaching program will teach you to date strategically to find the life partner you deserve.

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Client Testimonials

  • Client Testimonial

    “I was anxious about participating in this program. It felt silly to admit I might need it. My individual therapist was also skeptical that it was not what I needed to focus on, but boy were we wrong... taking the SAFE space and intentional time to be critical about dating practices with an experienced coach and therapist, along with sharing in a group setting, held a vulnerability that was met with understanding and encouragement. It's worth breaking down what my needs are and how to find what I want. There's nothing wrong with my heart and when it comes to matters of the heart, it's worth deep diving and sorting how to swim through the dating pool effectively.”

  • Client Testimonial

    Alyse taught me to “treat dating as sort of like a business in that it is important to be specific and know what it is that I want.”

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  • Client Testimonial

    "Thank you for holding space for navigating needs, grace for honest intentions, and encouragement for prospective dates without assuming responsibility.”

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  • Client Testimonial

    “Alyse is kind, warm, caring, relatable, and funny. Most importantly, she is non-judgmental, trust-worthy, and makes you feel 100% comfortable. Alyse is realistic and genuine; she gives practical advice that will actually help you and make you more productive; she never just tells you what you want to hear. I love that I leave every session with an action plan, and Alyse always follows up with whatever it is we left off with during our previous meeting. Everyone needs an Alyse in their lives.”

  • Client Testimonial

    “You have shown me the person that I could be but never imagined I would become. For that I am forever grateful.”

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  • Client Testimonial

    “Thanks to you, Alyse, I am better for having you in my life. I am a strong, determined woman, and I know if I require a "tuneup," I know your "shop" door is open. You are the Mercedes Dealer for the soul.”

  • Client Testimonial

    “Your warmth and sincerity means more than you can know…You made me feel safe to uncover what was holding me back and you made me feel safe enough to face it, deal with it and move on. And I am better for it. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!”

  • Client Testimonial

    Alyse taught me to look “at dating as data collection vs. my destiny.”